sleep on it

there's this big hole in the middle of everyone's lives
some wander closer to it than others,
some dont even ever see it its hard to decide which i am sometimes

when people say "sleep on it" what do they think is going to happen? that somehow while you are sleeping, you're going to discover the answer to all your issues?
what "sleep on it" really means, is go home, think this issue to death until you're tired of it and will say anything to make it go away in order to make life easier. not really, it just seems like a superficial answer sometimes, some times its better to talk about things when they're happening, while its fresh in your mind


and sometimes its good to walk away and cool off

also im watching gay tv, its some odd couple having a gay argument about whether the female part of the couple is "flirty-fighting" the guy
if you're going to fight...fight, or at least try and talk it out, rather than pretending you dont mean what you say, just so you can tell yourself that you said it.